Mission Statement: Support for People Accused of Abuse
(SPAA) is an organization of men and women who understand the needs of those
accused of domestic violence. Through
our own tragic experiences, we learned the value of mutual support after
having been torn from our families and forced to make our way alone. We
believe that whether “guilty as charged” or “not guilty” or something
in between, people accused of abuse need and deserve help too. However, our
collective experience looking for appropriate services led to disappointment,
confusion and despair; and for some of us, arrest. Our mission is to help you
get what you need, so you can avoid some of the mistakes we made and so you
don’t have to navigate this treacherous path alone.
How do we operate? SPAA is a network of people who have
been through the emotional upheaval of the restraining order process and who
are willing to help others get the services they need. We provide this site so you can link to resources,
which will help you understand and better, managed the restraining order
process. If you would like to
speak with someone directly please send us an email making that request. If you are interested in starting a support group in your
area, we will help you all we can.
We are an independent organization, and do
not claim to satisfy the Department of Public Health’s requirement for “a
batterer treatment program.” People come to SPAA because they want to. When
we support each other’s efforts at understanding and correcting our abusive
relationships it is because we feel “safe” enough to do this work.
What do we offer people?
We started our first group in Wakefield Massachusetts,
but discontinued regular meetings when members moved on. Some of our members went on to join men’s groups such as MensWork
in Wakefield, Massachusetts. Recently
a new support group has formed and meets biweekly in Beverly Massachusetts.
However this groups has elected to be an all male group.
If you are within commuting distance, please feel invited to attend.
Click on to Men's
Rap Group for more details.
Our vision for the future sees support groups as
ubiquitous as those for “female victims”, people helping people in an
anonymous and safe environment to reexamine and make necessary changes in
their lives following charges of domestic abuse. We encourage you to start
your own SPAA and will help all we can. We have developed a “prototype”
model for running meetings and supplying people with the resources they need.
The business plan,
brochure,
meeting agenda, press release
and flyer can be down loaded from this web site. Let us know if
you start your own group so we can link up and refer people to you. We believe
this effort will contribute to rebuilding "safer" families for everyone. Drop us an
email and let us know
your opinion.
This
site visited:
times since June 21, 1998.
SPAA
Box 115, 7
Lincoln Street
Wakefield, MA 01880
(781)246-3691
mailto:Spaa98@aol.com
A few web sites
we have found helpful. Click on to them and see for your self.