Ask Van & Olga

• Frustrated with your panty "binge and purge" cycles?
• So knotted up with guilt that you're sure everyone on the street somehow knows about your panty obsession?
• Wondering if your panty need is keeping you from having a better relationship with your partner?
• Always making resolutions to give up panties, yet you never do?
• Sweating being "busted" by your lover, and don't know how to talk to her about why you do what you do?
• Just wanting someone "safe" to talk to?

We visit this site because it fills a lot of our needs:

• To read what others have to say about panties and how they are part of our lives
• To look at the pictures
• For a safe place just to hang out, a place where we feel welcome and among friends

Now there's a corner here for us. Van & Olga  provide an understanding perspective to your panty related questions and concerns. And don't forget—Van is "one of us", too!

Not Gay, Seeks Playmate

From: debbj Date: Sat, 27 Nov 1999 02:59 Subject: new to site...not to panties!  Dear Van and Olga,  How can I thank you for this sight for us to open up to this obsession that we keep so secret. I, like so many others began at an early age with my mother's panties. I'd even sometimes get bold enough to sneak into her panty drawer when she was at home, put them on and wear them around the house for a while and then lock myself in my room and masterbate... and I haven't stopped since, nor do I want to! I got my first job in a department store so I could see them, touch them and steal them...which I did. Now I am 40 years old and hiding it from my wife. My collection consists of about 30 pair...one added just today. And I was in searh of more when I found your sight tonight. Using my search engine, I was trying to find a wabsite for OLGA bras and panties...they're my favorites. My wife is out of town for the weekend so I'm at the computer wearing my favorites, bright pink Olga's with an Olga bra stockings and garter and my wife's pink nightie. Just reading these stories has me hard and dripping with pre-cum to know I'm not alone and not the freak I thought I was. By the way...I going to sleep in this tonight and hopefully have a wet dream. And to the guy who has the dream about rubbing another man in panties till he comes and then him returning the favor...I have that one all the time and am not gay...I just want to share this enjoyment with someone who will understand ...I just don't know how to go about finding someone without my wife finding out what I'm up to...any suggestions? One more thing...do you know how I can get to a website specifically for OLGA panties? I need them!!! Too wet now...gotta go...or cum... I love all of you, Lacy

[Awaiting Van's reply]

Send Van & Olga your queries. We'll publish them, and Van & Olga's thoughts here on the site. (Anonymously, of course)

Van is a lifelong panty-lover with a degree in Counseling Psychology. For years he wondered if he would ever understand his attraction to undies. According to Van, he never really has. He considered and ultimately rejected psychoanalytic and psychological interpretations of deviance. Eventually he came to see it an innocent yet complex form of sexual imprinting. At a certain point Van decided it was an O.K., even desirable inclination and never looked back.

Van comments, "I am very interested in how other panty lovers attempt to either integrate or hide their panty interest from their wives, lovers, or girlfriends. I believe that the more secretive one is the more compulsive a habit becomes. Sharing this most intimate attraction and desire with a loved one on the other hand offers the possibility of genuine acceptance, better sex, and a stronger relationship. Having tried both approaches and varying degrees of openness about it, I would like to share some of what I've learned. I want to celebrate panty love and help others (including couples) have fun with it without feeling guilty or weird."

Olga is Van's partner and also has a degree in Counseling. Olga has enjoyed very satisfying sex with Van for the many years of their relationship. Still, she was initially quite puzzled when she realized that her undies held a particular fascination for him. Gradually, over time, she understood that their sexual fulfillment and his propensity were not mutually exclusive, and found ways to incorporate his interests with hers. Olga comments, "Still, there are some aspects that both bewilder, and, at times, trouble me. I look forward to sharing my viewpoints with interested readers and, perhaps, their partners, offering my own unique experience and suggestions."

"If your fondness for panties is a concern for you or for someone you care about, you have a question, or just want to share your story with someone, drop us a line. Olga and I may not always agree with one another, but we pledge to tell it the way each of us sees it."

—Van and Olga