Body parts. Paired organs of vision, the movements, lid positions, and pupil size of which reveal a great deal
about our emotions, convictions, and moods.
Usage: Gaze direction clearly shows others where our attention lies. We have developed
an amazing ability to gaze back into the eyes of our beholders to gauge their feelings. However,
being looked at so arouses the sympathetic nervous system (see FIGHT-OR-FLIGHT) that we
may feel compelled to glance away. Perhaps because the eye's retina is an outgrowth of the forebrain,
peering into someone else's eyes is not unlike seeing into the brain itself. This may be why the
sacred Eye of Horus (the All-Seeing Utchat of Ancient Egypt) had so many complex meanings.
Anatomy. The resting position of an open eyelid is maintained by the levator palpebrae superioris
muscle. Relaxed, the lower lid barely touches the bottom circumference of our iris, while the
upper eyelid covers a good deal of its top. When excited, we widen our eye opening (or
palpebral fissure), and narrow it when we feel threatened. Sudden eyelid closure is part of a
protective, mammalian facial grimace brought on by the startle reflex (Salzen 1979).
Widened eyes reflect emotions of the fight-or-flight response (see FLASHBULB EYES).
Culture. "Oriental jade dealers wear dark glasses, so that they do not give the game away when they see a particularly good example" (Morris 1994:198).
Evolution I. Our golf-ball-sized eyes glissade in bony sockets above the nose. Their spherical shape may be traced back to amphibian ancestors of the Carboniferous period (earlier, eyes had been flat and fishlike). Large eyes today accent the horizontal aspect of our face by counteracting the verticality of our nose.
Evolution II. Light-sensitive eyespots originated more than 500 m.y.a. in animals without
backbones. Despite their primitiveness, or perhaps because of it, horizontally paired eyes are the
primary focus of the human face today.
Fascination. We are enthralled by eyes. From the moment of birth we respond to our mother's
eyes as if programmed to do so. Babies smile at black geometric spots--perceiving them as
"eyes" by six weeks of age (Kandel et al. 1991:994). In adults, eye contact shows personal
involvement and creates intimate bonds. Mutual gaze narrows the physical gap between us.
Gaze-following: Following another's gaze (looking where another looks) is a critical social skill which enables us to read unspoken intentions, emotions, and perceptions. University of Washington psychologists Rechele Brooks and Andrew Meltzoff have discovered that gaze-following begins in babies between 10 and 11 months of life (Brooks and Meltzoff 2005). "We have found that at 9 months babies are beginning to do this by following the movement of the head. At 10 and 11 months they are following the head and the eyes. The eyes add important information and the babies are more consistently following the head when the eyes are open. It is as if a light is going off in their head. This is a clear shift and an important advance." [Brooks, Rechele, and Andrew N. Meltzoff (2005). "The Development of Gaze Following and Its Relation to Language," in Developmental Science (Vol. 8, No. 6): pp. 535-543.]
Primatology. As primates, for whom facial expressions provide key social and emotional information, we continually probe each other's eyes for positive or negative mood signs. We are acutely aware of being noticed by strangers. In waiting rooms we periodically glance up and scan for roving eyes (much as do monkeys in a cage). At parties, couples are acutely aware of their partner's roving eyes.
True feelings. Eyes appear in the human embryo by ca. 22 days of age. From that time--through an
incredible chain of neural commands--eyes accurately reflect how we feel about and relate to
the people in our Nonverbal World. Eyes convey unpleasant feelings through closed eyelids
and an averted gaze. Positive or provocative feelings show in opened eyelids, dilated pupils,
and direct gaze (cf. PHARYNGEAL ARCH).
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