Marriage is for life. It should not be taken lightly. Here is a list of questions you should think about before getting married.
On Family
Do you wish to have children?
If so how many?
What kind of parent do you think you will be?
What is a role of a mother or father?
How did your parents handle confict ?
How do you interact with your future in-laws?
What family traditions do you plan to use when you celebrate ( holidays, birthdays, family gatherings, etc)
Are you keeping your last name or hyphenating it?
What is a role of a wife or husband?
On Faith
What religion were you raised in?
How spiritual are you now?
Do you believe in God or a highter power?
Are you able to forgive?
Do you have diffrent spiritual beliefs?
Is it important for you to worship together?
If you have different religious beliefs whose tradition will you follow ?
On Sex
How often do you desire to have sex?
Are you able to talk freely about sex with your partner?
How do you feel about your partner's past sexual experenice ?
What will you do to keep your lovemaking desirable to your partner and yourself?
On Money
What debts do you have?
If so, when do you plan to pay off these debts?
How will financial decisions be made in your household?
Do you think of yourself as a spender or a saver?
What are you plans for retirement?
Are you going to have a joint or separate savings and checking accounts?
Advice on Fair Fighting
Never go to be bed mad at each other.
Don't bring up the pass.
Don't call each other names
Forgive each other
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