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Welcome to The RebelGent's World of
BDSM
A Little Background . .
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The RebelGent resides in Richmond, Virginia along with his slave, The Rebelsgal.
The RebelGent has been an active participant in the BDSM lifestyle for over
35 years and his slave for over 20 years.
The RebelCouple met online in September, 1994. We had both spent many, many
years looking for just the right partner we needed in order to enjoy this
life to fulfill our needs and this venue provided us a way to make contact
with others who enjoy this spectrum. More importantly to us, this venue gave
us the opportunity to meet, get to know, and to fall in love with each
other.
Rebelsgal was in Miami at the time, looking for a Master, and I was in Richmond,
looking for a slave. After several weeks' conversations both online and on
the telephone, I determined that I had finally found the slave I had searched
for these many years. I flew to Miami on November 17, 1994 to collar her
as My slave. A year later, on the same date, I married My slave.
Because it took us many years to find each other, we can understand the
frustrations of others just embarking on their search for fulfillment, as
we, too, had gone through all those same frustrations. With the success we
have found in our relationship, and because of our love of this life, we
feel we owe the community a show of thanks in some way . . . and hopefully,
sharing some of the knowledge we have acquired over these many years will
not only assist those who are starting their road, but also, in some ways,
at least, make the road easier for them.
Our philosophy of BDSM is fairly straightforward. The fundamental tenets
of this spectrum are honesty, sincerity -- both with one's self and all others.
We have very strong feelings about those tenets and apply them based on our
own ethics, standards and values, both within our own relationship, as well
as with any with whom we come into contact.
The only caveat we feel the need to add is a reminder that all opinions expressed
here, unless otherwise noted, are those of the RebelCouple, from the perspective
in which we apply the fundamental aspects of BDSM, D/s, and the concomitant
societal aspects of life in general.
Purpose
The purpose of this publication is to present one experienced Dominant's
perspective of BDSM to new Dominants, and at the same time, try to assist
anyone new to this life acquire a basis of understanding
about the various aspects of BDSM and D/s.
I hope that by presenting this real life view, based on a lifetime's wide
ranging experience, I will help prospective Dominants to focus on those areas
which are the fundamentals of successful relationships in general, and which
are even more essential to a D/s relationship.
We welcome comments, questions, advice (which we may or may not take, of
course :>), and any opinions from others they may feel the need to express.
That being said, I want to reiterate the primary focus of this page:
New Dominants.
For The RebelGent's Views On
...
As the section title implies, these are My thoughts regarding aspects
of this lifestyle. These are the conclusions to which I have come after many
years' experience in this style of life, and after having invested much time
in introspection, determining what this means to Me, as a Man,
a Dominant, and most importantly, as the Master of the slave I love.
Hopefully, these thoughts regarding a variety of concepts within the BDSM
spectrum will be of assistance to you as a new Dominant as you go through
your own process of introspection.
I wish you the same good fortune I have had in ultimately achieving your
own goals in this life.
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Essence of a 24/7
Relationship
The Dominant Mindset
Rules of the RebelsChateau
Sample Contract of Submission
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Characteristics of a Wannabe
Could You be ... a Wannabe?
Or ... Are You a Dominant?
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The Importance of Introspection
Know Thyself
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Keep Always in the Forefront
Issues of Common Sense . . .
And Safety ...
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Deluged by "Information"
Keeping Things in Perspective
Another Perspective
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How Much Do You Really Know?
Experience Tells
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Would You Like to Know More?
Recommended Reading: Non-Fiction
BDSM Organizations
Websites
Recommended Reading: Fiction
PERSPECTIVES in the BDSM
WORLD
Essays
Reflecting the Individuality of this World
A
Matter of Balance by Peggy,
aka O
Basic
Math: Hints for Adding Partners to a
Relationship by Peggy,
aka O
What a slave
Needs by David Stein
It is important for Me to acknowledge the countless hours My slave, The Rebelsgal, has spent in editing and formatting the pages of this website. If it were not for her, this website could not exist. she is an excellent example that behind every good Master is an even better slave.
All rights reserved, Copyright
1997, The RebelGent
Let me know what you think about my page.
