
Feeling pressured, anxious, hurried, and overwhelmed are part
of linear time perspectives, a way
of experiencing time flowing relentlessly among past, present,
and future. It's this infrastructure, the relentless and uncontrollable
flow of time that makes you anxious. But you don't need to experience
time this way. During peak experience you're probably so absorbed
in what you're doing there's either no awareness of time flowing,
or it seems like time is going very quickly but isn't making
you anxious with its passing. (See Linear
vs. Timeless Views.)
We all have certain activities or projects or techniques that
easily foster such 'time warps' or timelessnesses. Think about
what you like to do that normally does away with the feeling
of time flowing linearly and relentlessly from moment to moment.
What gets you so absorbed you don't notice time passing? Identify
three activities that bring about a sense of timelessness, well-being,
and relaxation.
Now whenever you're feeling pressured, and provided of course
that your circumstances allow (e.g., if you're at work, you may
not be able to ski), you can do one of those activities to break
through the pressure and foster a sense of timelessness. Just
do one of the activities you've identified until the pressure
lightens. The choice is yours whether you continue to reinforce
the pressured linear flow of time or open it up to some less
fixed experience.
Copyright © 1997 by Steve Randall, Ph.D.
Now you can do one of the other deadline
pressure exercises to change an inflexible pressured situation
into a more flowing and enjoyable experience. Or if you want
to read more, and particularly if you think the time pressure
in your situation is really unchangeable, read "Where
Does Time Pressure Come From?"


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