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QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR KIDS

Yes, we know that this phrase has gotten overused in the last few years. Just what is quality time? We define quality time as a time when both you and your kids are simply enjoying being together and getting to know each other a little better.

Try some of these suggestions:

Use everyday chores as a special time together. Have your child help you with the laundry, or getting dinner ready. This is not a time to try to make your child perform the chore perfectly; it's a time to chat and giggle while you work together. Let your child do whatever part they can handle and enjoy. For example, your child may be too young to wash the dishes, but just old enough to rinse the silverware and the non-breakable dishes and put them in the drainer. Be creative!
Use some of your errand and shopping time as a special time together. One mother reports that her four-year old considers grocery shopping their special time together. Yes, this mother does have to allow extra time to get the shopping done, but the payback is well worth it. Her son gets to pick out his cereal for the week, assist in putting some of the groceries in the cart, and even push the cart when the store is not crowded.
Combine exercise time with quality time. Ask you child to ride their bike around the block while you jog. Ask them to walk with you, or for the little ones, push them in a stroller. A father reports that his child doesn't even mind getting up early to be able to exercise with Daddy.
Have your child teach you something. Be attentive. This can range from a hilarious description from a three year old, to an astonishing learning experience with a ten year old. Your teenager can teach you some new slang words, or about the latest rock or new age band, maybe even a dance step. Be prepared to learn. Your kids know a lot more than you think they do. Next time they mention something they are really excited about, ask them to teach you a little more. And pay attention!

HINT: You've probably already figured this out, but all of these suggestions work beautifully for getting closer to your spouse.

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