I began writing with the thought that I don’t have much to say right now – I’m happy.
I am pretty happy. I’m getting along well with my three partners.
Of course, there are always questions you can ask. “Can it be better?”
What if we all lived together – my partners, their partners – in a big house somewhere?
“Happy” can sound “sappy.”
But I’ve been through the horrible “poly dramas” – mostly caused, not (I think) by polyness itself, but by people’s conceptions or preconceptions about it. So it’s nice to feel contentment.
Poly relationships are really just a lot like non-poly relationships – know yourself and know your partners and avoid poly partners that you wouldn’t want as non-poly partners. Avoid people with extreme personality “issues” and instability.
Don’t be discouraged, if people tell you that poly relationships are “difficult” – so are monogamous relationships!
Keep on truckin’!